Non sexual touches in love are a sign of trust. They reduce anxiety,
and they bring two lovers closer and helps them bond better. It even
helps you stay healthier and feel happier in your everyday lives. And
when you touch your lover, you’re creating a connection that makes them
feel better and more loved, and in return, you’d feel better about
yourself too!
Here are 16 non-sexual touches that you can indulge in with your own
lover. Try any of these touches and both of you will feel closer, bond
better and feel more connected in no time!
#1 Playful wrestling. Do you ever fight each other in jest
with pillows or with your hands while playing on the bed? This may seem
immature, but it’s a great way to feel closer and relieve stress at the
same time.
#2 Kiss on the forehead. A kiss on the forehead is a perfect
way to show your affection. Lean in and kiss your lover on their
forehead when you’re sitting with them. Chances are, your partner will
close their eyes and smile because they can’t help but feel good about
what you just did!
#3 Tickles. A tickle can be annoying at times, but it’s still a
lot of fun. It’s a great excuse to touch each other non-sexually, and
make each other laugh and feel good at the same time.
#4 Stroke their hair. Run your hands through your partner’s hair while cuddling up. You’ll feel great and your partner will feel a lot more loved.
#5 While walking past them. Give your lover a naughty pat on
the butt while walking past them, or interlace your fingers with theirs
for a second as you walk past each other.
#6 Wandering hands. Let your hands wander over your lover’s
body when both of you are watching the telly. Run your hands against
their palms or over their arms, or just about anywhere else. It doesn’t
have to be sexual at all, and it’ll still make both of you feel more
connected.
#7 Dance together. It doesn’t matter if you don’t know how to
dance. When your favorite tune’s playing in the background, hold each
other’s hands and dance along. Your boyfriend or girlfriend may laugh
about it, but they’ll feel good about it too!
#8 Hold hands. Hold your lover’s hands now and then when
you’re with them. It doesn’t matter if you’re at a restaurant, in public
or lazing a home.
#9 Sit on their lap. Sitting on a lover’s lap or resting your head on their lap will make your partner want to cuddle you back instantly.
#10 A hug. A simple hug could seem meaningless, but it’s
something that’ll make both of you feel really good. Just hugging each
other for about half a minute releases feel-good chemicals in your body
that’ll make both of you feel loved and connected, and it’ll have an
uplifting effect on your mood too.
#11 Driving. Place your hand on your lover’s thigh when
they’re driving the car. If you don’t want to make your gesture obvious
and feel awkward about it, place your hand on your partner’s thigh while
saying something to them or while emphasizing about something. It’ll
feel natural, and yet, it’ll make your partner feel good about being in
love with you.
#12 The stroll. Do both of you hold hands while strolling down
a park or while walking down a flea market? Place your arm around your
girlfriend, or wrap your arms around your guy while talking a leisurely
walk together.
#13 The hand on cheek. Hold your lover’s face with your two
hands, or place your palm on their cheek while saying something. It’s an
endearing gesture that’ll always make your partner feel good.
#14 Massage and rubs. A massage always feels good. Give your
partner a shoulder or back rub at the end of the day now and then, when
you feel like it. They’ll feel relaxed and grateful at the same
time.
#15 Playing with the feet. If you’re lazing on the couch with
your partner, place their feet on your lap and run your fingers around
their toes. You could tickle it or massage it, and it’ll still feel just
as playful and good.
#16 The kiss. Just how often do you kiss your lover? Has the
kiss just turned into a move you do during foreplay? A kiss is a
powerful connection. Kiss your lover often, even if it’s just a casual
peck on the lips. As long as you feel like kissing your partner often,
your relationship will grow stronger, and both of you will feel more
loved too.
Remember, non-sexual touches are just as important as sexual
touches in a relationship. Indulge in them often, and both of you will
feel more loved, connected and happier every single day!
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